Short Autobiography of T K B Sen

I'm T K B Sen

My name is ๐“๐š๐ซ๐ฎ๐ง ๐’๐ž๐ง (๐จ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ข๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐“. ๐Š. ๐ ๐’๐ž๐ง). I was born on 18 June, 1962 in Calcutta, India, where I lived until the time I went to school for class-V in another state, Maharashtra.

Iโ€™m the tenth child and the youngest child of ten siblings in the family of my parents. ๐Œ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐š๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ, ๐‹๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐Œ๐ซ. ๐๐ก๐š๐ ๐ฐ๐š๐ญ๐ข ๐๐ซ๐š๐ฌ๐š๐ ๐’๐ž๐ง was working in ๐‘๐š๐ข๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฌ๐ก ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฆ๐š ๐›๐ž๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฆ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž ๐ซ๐ข๐จ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ž๐ญ๐ก๐ง๐ข๐œ-๐ˆ๐ง๐๐ข๐š๐ง๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐‘๐š๐ง๐ ๐จ๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ง ๐‰๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ”-๐€๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ, ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ– and he returned to Bengal, British India.

My grandfather ๐‹๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐’๐ก๐ซ๐ข ๐€๐ง๐ง๐š๐๐š ๐Œ๐จ๐ก๐š๐ง ๐’๐ž๐ง with his two sonsโ€™ families came to Calcutta from municipality of ๐’๐ž๐ง๐›๐š๐ ๐ก, ๐๐จ๐š๐ค๐ก๐š๐ฅ๐ข ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐œ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ“ before ๐๐จ๐š๐ค๐ก๐š๐ฅ๐ข ๐ซ๐ข๐จ๐ญ๐ฌ.
๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ, ๐‹๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐Œ๐ซ๐ฌ. ๐ƒ๐š๐ฒ๐š๐ฐ๐š๐ญ๐ข ๐’๐ž๐ง was a homemaker. My father was 52 when I was born, so he always assumed he would never live to grow me as my three my brothers who didnโ€™t have any plan for my future.

For that reason, h๐ž ๐๐ž๐œ๐ข๐๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐š๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ ๐ซ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ ๐ž๐ž-๐œ๐š๐ฆ๐ฉ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ˆ ๐ ๐ž๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ง๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ž๐๐ฎ๐œ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ ๐จ๐จ๐ ๐œ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ž๐ซ.

I went to the ๐‡๐ข๐ง๐๐ข ๐‚๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐‡๐ข๐ ๐ก ๐’๐œ๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฅ, ๐‚๐ก๐š๐ง๐๐ซ๐š๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ and the ๐Š๐š๐ฆ๐ญ๐ก๐š ๐‡๐ข๐ ๐ก ๐’๐œ๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฅ, ๐†๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐š, where I completed my middle classes and high school education respectively in English medium.
Then, I went to Intermediate Colleges in Rudrapur and Bareiily in Uttar Pradesh to pass class XII. After, I did my under graduate degrees, postgraduate degree and professional degree.

Growing up around girls and boys in refugee camp was not easy, considering the fact that I am a disabled. With all the rough behaviors of the boys and girls in the camps, there was a lot of competition and rivalry.

I had to be tough as my colleagues in childhood or I would have been toppled by their naturally aggressive nature. Not that we were dysfunctional colleagues, it was just normal colleaguesโ€™ rivalry and it turned to be of benefit to me.

Since I was the youngest and a disabled, I was bound to be at the bottom of the totem pole in everything. So, I had to be equally tough to fight for whatever was rightfully mine. As a result, I turned out to be an angry young man and also built a reputation as a no-nonsense boy.

Furthermore, I had older colleagues, ๐Œ๐š๐ง๐ข๐ค ๐‚๐ก๐š๐ค๐ซ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐‹๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐’๐ก๐ฒ๐š๐ฆ๐š๐ฅ ๐ƒ๐š๐ฌ, ๐๐ข๐ค๐ก๐ข๐ฅ ๐๐ก๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ฒ๐š ๐š๐ง๐ ๐๐š๐ซ๐š๐ฒ๐š๐ง ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฒ to protect me in case of a dispute.

I believe I adopted both my parentsโ€™ brilliant brains, because I was always the best students academically.

However, my abilities were not limited to the classroom alone. I also excelled in social activities. In high school, ๐ˆ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐’๐ž๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ฒ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ƒ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐š ๐๐ฎ๐ฃ๐š ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข ๐‚๐š๐ฆ๐ฉ, ๐†๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐š ๐ข๐ง ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ•๐Ÿ“ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‚๐š๐ฉ๐ญ๐š๐ข๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Š๐š๐ฆ๐ญ๐ก๐š ๐‡๐ข๐ ๐ก ๐’๐œ๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฅ, ๐†๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐š ๐ข๐ง ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ•๐Ÿ” .

While I was forging a name for myself in the academic and social activities, my sports life was in a really bad state, my disabilities were making it hard for me to coexist well with my colleagues.

The colleagues were scared of my disability persona, while the they felt intimidated by my confidence and competitive nature.

However, something happened in my life that sent me reeling back to the foundations of my masculinity. It happened during my intermediate classes. During intermediate classes, love was in the air.
Young men were gathering courage to approach girls they liked, while girls were torn apart whether to accept or reject their proposals. As a result, I decided to embrace my masculine side. I got rid of all my old clothes, started wearing new dresses and new haircut.

So, I began my college studies with a new form of rejuvenation in life. I decided to pursue my college education in my hometown, because of the poverty that I had been associated with tuition.
I understood the challenges and opportunities it would expose me to and I love challenges.

There so many both boysโ€™ and girlsโ€™ students studied academic under my expert tuition. I got enough money from tuition to maintain my parentsโ€™ living expenses and my academic expenses.

My social activities between my schooling to getting jobs, When I was living at Birsi Camp near Gondia which was a refugee camp, I helped ๐’๐ก๐ซ๐ข๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ข ๐’๐š๐ซ๐ฅ๐š๐›๐š๐ข, ๐š ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐š๐ง ๐ซ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ ๐ž๐ž who lived in the camp to complain against the ๐‚๐š๐ฆ๐ฉ ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ ๐’๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ•๐Ÿ” ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ๐Ÿ‘ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐’๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ— ๐ˆ.๐.๐‚. ๐š๐ฌ ๐ก๐ž ๐ซ๐š๐ฉ๐ž๐ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ.

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐‚๐š๐ฆ๐ฉ ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐๐ž๐, ๐ก๐ž ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐Ÿ๐š๐œ๐ž๐ ๐๐ž๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐ž๐ง๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐ซ๐ฒ ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ž๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐๐ข๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐ž๐ง๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐ซ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ ๐ž.

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ, ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐›๐ฎ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฎ๐œ๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ฒ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ๐ฅ๐ž๐ซ๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž for this matter, ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐จ๐ซ๐๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐š๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐Ÿ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐Œ๐š๐๐š๐ง ๐ˆ๐ง๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ, ๐‡๐š๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐š๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ, ๐Œ๐ž๐ž๐ซ๐ฎ๐ญ, ๐”๐ญ๐ญ๐š๐ซ ๐๐ซ๐š๐๐ž๐ฌ๐ก ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข ๐‚๐š๐ฆ๐ฉ, ๐†๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐š, ๐Œ๐š๐ก๐š๐ซ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐š ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ฅ๐š๐›๐จ๐ซ๐ž๐ซ’๐ฌ ๐ฃ๐จ๐› ๐š๐ฌ ๐ซ๐ž๐ก๐š๐›๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐ž ๐ˆ ๐ก๐š๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐ซ ๐œ๐ฅ๐š๐ฌ๐ฌ-๐— ๐๐จ๐š๐ซ๐ ๐ž๐ฑ๐š๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ง ๐†๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐š.

๐ˆ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐‡๐š๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐š๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ข๐ง ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ•๐Ÿ•. I was sent back to Gondia by the refugees of ๐‡๐š๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐š๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ž๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐š๐ข๐ซ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐๐จ๐š๐ซ๐ ๐ž๐ฑ๐š๐ฆ.

๐ˆ ๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ž๐ฑ๐š๐ฆ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐š๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ž๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ ๐จ๐จ๐ ๐ฆ๐š๐ซ๐ค๐ฌ ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ˆ ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐ง’๐ญ ๐ ๐ž๐ญ ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐š๐ฅ ๐ž๐ฑ๐š๐ฆ ๐š๐ฌ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ ๐›๐ž๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ˆ ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ญ๐จ ๐†๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐š, ๐’๐จ ๐ˆ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ ๐ฆ๐š๐ซ๐ค๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐š๐ฅ ๐ž๐ฑ๐š๐ฆ.

After Board exam, I returned to Hastinapur, I met the GM, Madan Industries, Hastinapur, he unfitted me for the labor job but asked me to join the clerical job as Time Keeper. I responded to him about my eligibility for the job. After seeing my date of birth, he said, โ€œ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’“๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’•.โ€

After that incident, ๐ˆ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐‡๐š๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐š๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐จ ๐“๐ซ๐š๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ ๐œ๐š๐ฆ๐ฉ, ๐‘๐ฎ๐๐ซ๐š๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ, ๐๐š๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐š๐ฅ. ๐…๐ž๐ฆ๐š๐ฅ๐ž- ๐ซ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ ๐ž๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ก๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ ๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐“๐ซ๐š๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ ๐œ๐š๐ฆ๐ฉ, ๐‘๐ฎ๐๐ซ๐š๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ.

Hence, I made here ๐—จ๐—ท๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—–๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฏ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿต๐Ÿณ๐Ÿณ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‚๐š๐ฆ๐ฉ, ๐€๐ฆ๐š๐ฅ ๐Œ๐จ๐ง๐๐š๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐š๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐๐ž๐ ๐š๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ, ๐ˆ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐’๐ž๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ซ๐š๐ง๐ค.

After it, the Students Union, Transit camp, Rudrapur was established from 1979 to 1983, I was won the posts of Secretary and President continuously by voting of the campโ€™s students.

๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿต๐Ÿด๐Ÿฐ ๐’•๐’ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿต๐Ÿด๐Ÿณ, ๐—ก๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฎ ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ก๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฎ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ต๐—น๐˜† ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ก๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฎ; ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—˜๐—น๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ก๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ; (๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿด ๐—ข๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿด๐Ÿฒ๐Ÿณ – ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฏ ๐—ข๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿต๐Ÿญ๐Ÿญ) ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜๐˜€-๐—œ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ, ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฆ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ ๐—ฉ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ. ๐ƒ๐ซ. ๐’๐ฎ๐›๐จ๐๐ก ๐Š๐ฎ๐ฆ๐š๐ซ ๐’๐š๐๐ก๐š๐ค ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐๐š๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐š๐ง๐ ๐—œ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ณ ๐—˜๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ.

The most popular leaders of Bengali refugees in Uttar Pradesh like ๐‘ฉ๐’†๐’๐’ˆ๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’”’ ๐’“๐’†๐’‡๐’–๐’ˆ๐’†๐’†๐’” ๐‘ฎ๐’‚๐’๐’…๐’‰๐’Š ๐‘ณ๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐‘บ๐’‰๐’“๐’Š ๐‘ท๐’–๐’๐’Š๐’ ๐‘ฒ๐’–๐’Ž๐’‚๐’“ ๐‘ฉ๐’Š๐’”๐’˜๐’‚๐’”, ๐‘บ๐’‰๐’“๐’Š ๐‘ฝ๐’Š๐’—๐’†๐’Œ๐’‚๐’๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐‘ฉ๐’Š๐’”๐’˜๐’‚๐’”, ๐‘บ๐’‰๐’“๐’Š ๐‘ฉ๐’Š๐’“๐’‚๐’๐’„๐’‰๐’Š ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’…๐’‚ ๐‘น๐’๐’š, ๐‘ณ๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐‘บ๐’‰๐’“๐’Š ๐‘จ๐’Ž๐’–๐’๐’š๐’‚ ๐‘ฑ๐’๐’“๐’…๐’‚๐’“, ๐‘ณ๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐‘บ๐’‰๐’“๐’Š ๐‘ช๐’‰๐’Š๐’•๐’•๐’‚๐’“๐’‚๐’๐’‹๐’‚๐’ ๐‘น๐’‚๐’‰๐’‚ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’๐’ˆ ๐’‘๐’๐’‘๐’–๐’๐’‚๐’“ ๐’๐’†๐’‚๐’…๐’†๐’“ Shankar Chakrabartty ๐ก๐š๐ ๐ ๐š๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐š ๐œ๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ๐ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐”๐ญ๐ญ๐š๐ซ ๐๐ซ๐š๐๐ž๐ฌ๐ก ๐ข๐ง ๐——๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—ฟ, ๐—ก๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐ข๐ง ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐œ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก ๐š๐ฌ ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐ฌ’ ๐œ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ, ๐ฅ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ, ๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐œ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐จ๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐”๐ญ๐ญ๐š๐ซ ๐๐ซ๐š๐๐ž๐ฌ๐ก. ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฅ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฆ๐š๐ซ๐ค ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐–๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐ž๐ง๐ ๐š๐ฅ. ๐€๐œ๐œ๐จ๐ซ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ ๐š๐ง ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐š๐ง๐ข๐ณ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ฅ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฏ๐ž ๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ. ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ง๐š๐ฆ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐š๐ง๐ข๐ณ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐”.๐. ๐˜๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ ๐—”๐˜€๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป. ๐‹๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐’๐ก๐ซ๐ข ๐’๐ฎ๐๐ก๐š ๐‘๐š๐ง๐ฃ๐š๐ง ๐‘๐š๐ก๐š ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ˆ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐†๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐š๐ฅ ๐’๐ž๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ฒ.

The Association wanted to takes part in ๐‹๐จ๐ค ๐’๐š๐›๐ก๐š ๐„๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿ’ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐š๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐’๐ž๐š๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ฌ ๐š ๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž, ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐ฒ ๐๐ž๐ง๐ ๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฏ๐จ๐ญ๐ž๐ our candidate, ๐‘ณ๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐‘บ๐’‰๐’“๐’Š ๐‘ท๐’–๐’๐’Š๐’ ๐‘ฒ๐’–๐’Ž๐’‚๐’“ ๐‘ฉ๐’Š๐’”๐’˜๐’‚๐’” was the candidate from the Association and ๐ ๐จ๐ญ ๐Ÿ,๐Ÿ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ– (๐ŸŽ.๐Ÿ“%) ๐ฏ๐จ๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐Ÿ”๐ญ๐ก ๐ซ๐š๐ง๐ค ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ“ ๐œ๐š๐ง๐๐ข๐๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ, ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ๐ž๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐๐ž๐ง๐ ๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฏ๐จ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐‹๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐’๐ก๐ซ๐ข ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ.

I not only lost my confidence in Bengali refugeesโ€™ unity after ๐‹๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐’๐ก๐ซ๐ข ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌโ€™ defeat in the Lok Sabha polls, 1984 from Nainital Seat but also ๐ˆ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ข๐๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง, ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐š๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐จ๐ง ๐Ž๐œ๐ญ๐จ๐›๐ž๐ซ,๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ, ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿ’.

After these incidents and five years of my graduation, I got job in Ordnance Equipment Factory Headquarters Kanpur in 1987. I then worked in Central Board of Excise and Customs with the joining in Moradabad, for three years.

My Friend Shankar Chakrabartty helped me to crack the competitions for getting the above jobs, when he was working in the State Bank of India Pilibhit.

After getting the job in ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐š๐๐š๐›๐š๐, ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ž๐ฅ๐๐ž๐ซ ๐›๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐‹๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐’๐ก๐ซ๐ข ๐”๐ฆ๐ž๐ฌ๐ก ๐‚๐ก๐š๐ง๐๐ซ๐š ๐’๐ž๐ง ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง Shipra Adhikary, Shely Sanร ti, Utpal Sen ๐œ๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐š๐๐š๐›๐š๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฃ๐จ๐› ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ง ๐ƒ๐ž๐œ๐ž๐ฆ๐›๐ž๐ซ, ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿ•. ๐–๐ž ๐ฐ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฅ๐ก๐ข ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐š๐๐š๐›๐š๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐š ๐ฌ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ง ๐ƒ๐ž๐œ๐ž๐ฆ๐›๐ž๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ”, ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿ•.

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐›๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ค๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐š ๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ- ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐œ๐œ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐š๐ญ ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ง๐š๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐๐ฅ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐š๐ซ ๐๐ฅ๐š๐ณ๐š ๐‚๐ข๐ง๐ž๐ฆ๐š ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐๐ž๐ฐ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฅ๐ก๐ข ๐‘๐š๐ข๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ ๐’๐ญ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐š๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ” ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž. ๐‡๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ก ๐œ๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐š๐ฌ ๐š ๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐œ๐ค – ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฎ๐ฌ.

๐–๐ž ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ก๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐‘๐š๐ฆ ๐Œ๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ก๐š๐ซ ๐‹๐จ๐ก๐ข๐š ๐‡๐จ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ข๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ก๐ข๐ฆ ๐›๐ฒ ๐š ๐ญ๐š๐ฑ๐ข ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐๐จ๐œ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ž๐œ๐ฅ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐š๐ ๐๐ข๐ž๐. After the tragic incident, I wandered my mother in the hospital but I didnโ€™t find her.
At last, I asked our children about her, they replied that she could not ride on the taxi hurriedly and would be at Connaught Place.

๐’๐จ, ๐ˆ ๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ๐ž๐ ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ง๐š๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐๐ฅ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐’๐ญ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ง๐š๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐๐ฅ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐œ๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐จ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ข๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ข๐ง ๐š ๐ฃ๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐›๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐๐ž๐š๐ ๐›๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐จ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ข๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ซ๐ฒ.

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐›๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ง๐š๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐๐ฅ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐’๐ญ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง. ๐ˆ ๐ฅ๐จ๐๐ ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ง ๐….๐ˆ.๐‘ ๐š๐ ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ ๐š๐ง๐จ๐ง๐ฒ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐š๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ. ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ฒ ๐š๐ญ ๐‡๐จ๐ญ๐ž๐ฅ ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐‘๐จ๐ฒ๐š๐ฅ ๐๐ฅ๐š๐ณ๐š ๐š๐ญ ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ง๐š๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐๐ฅ๐š๐œ๐ž, ๐๐ž๐ฐ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฅ๐ก๐ข ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.

๐’๐ž๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐›๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐๐ž๐š๐ ๐›๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ž๐ž๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง, ๐›๐ซ๐จ๐ค๐ž ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐ฉ๐ก๐ž๐ฐ ๐”๐ญ๐ฉ๐š๐ฅ ๐ ๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐š๐ ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.

The cops came back in the hotel and took us to the mortuary at 10 hours on December 17, 1987 to take up my brother body.

They advised his funeral would be done on the same day in New Delhi. I did accordingly, because no phone connection was in our house in Calcutta in those days.

๐€๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐š๐ฅ ๐œ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ฒ, ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ก๐ž๐ ๐‚๐š๐ฅ๐œ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ญ๐šโ€™๐ฌ ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž. ๐’๐ž๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ, ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ-๐ข๐ง-๐ฅ๐š๐ฐ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ž๐ฅ๐๐ž๐ซ ๐ง๐ข๐ž๐œ๐ž ๐’๐ก๐ฎ๐ค๐ฅ๐š ๐š๐ฌ๐ค๐ž๐ ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐›๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ.

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ž๐ž๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐ข๐ง๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐ซ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ ๐ข๐ซ๐ฅ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐๐ž๐, โ€œ๐Ÿ๐š๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž.โ€ ๐€๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐จ๐›๐›๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ, ๐ฌ๐จ, ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐ข๐ ๐ก๐›๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ ๐œ๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐›๐ฅ๐ฎ๐›๐›๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ .

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ-๐ข๐ง-๐ฅ๐š๐ฐ ๐ฌ๐š๐ญ ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ ๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐, ๐›๐š๐ฐ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ž๐ฒ๐ž๐ฌ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ก ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐›๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐š๐ฌ๐ค๐ž๐ ๐ฆ๐ž, โ€œ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐›๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ, ๐ก๐ž ๐ฐ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ?โ€ ๐ˆ ๐ก๐š๐ ๐ง๐จ ๐š๐ง๐ฌ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ, ๐ฌ๐ก๐ž ๐š๐ ๐š๐ข๐ง ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐œ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž๐š๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ฆ๐ž, ๐ง๐จ ๐›๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ. ๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ-๐ข๐ง-๐ฅ๐š๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐›๐ฅ๐ฎ๐›๐›๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ž๐ž๐ค๐ฌ. ๐€๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ ๐ข๐œ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž, ๐ˆ ๐ซ๐ž๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐š๐ญ ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐š๐๐š๐›๐š๐.

I got married with Ila Choudhary in Varanasi after three years of this tragic event. My friends Shankar Chakrabartty, Late Amar Dey (Kallu Dey), Late Gobind Mondal and elderly Adhir Mondal were witnessed of the event.

I moved to Varanasi with my mother and wife after I secured a deputation job with the ๐๐š๐ซ๐œ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ฌ ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฎ for three years. where I gave daily workout routines and healthy activities to my department. Therefore, moving from station Moradabad did not interfere with my line of work. At the time, I had purchased a house while I lost my mother on October 24, 1991 during my deputation in NCB.

I came back to my parent cadre on promotion in December, 1991 from NCB and was posted at Varanasi.

My biggest break came when I was deputed in ๐’๐ญ๐š๐Ÿ๐Ÿ ๐’๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง. The pay was good, I travelled around India and each day was exciting in its own unique way and offered new opportunities. Unfortunately, the job was too demanding and more times than not I was away from my wife and children, a twin son and daughter. I quite in 2008, after two years with the recruitment giant.
๐ƒ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž, ๐ˆ ๐ง๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ ๐จ๐ญ ๐š๐ง๐ฒ ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ ๐ž๐ฌ๐ก๐ž๐ž๐ญ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐š๐ง๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ซ๐๐ž๐ซ ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐š๐œ๐ž๐ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ง๐ฌ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ ๐ฒ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฒ.

๐€๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ ๐ฒ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐†๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐‚ ๐ญ๐จ ๐†๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐€, ๐ˆ ๐ ๐จ๐ญ ๐ซ๐ž๐ญ๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‚๐๐„๐‚ (๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐‚๐๐ˆ๐‚) ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ ๐Œ๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐…๐ข๐ง๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž, ๐†๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ง๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ˆ๐ง๐๐ข๐š ๐จ๐ง ๐‰๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ, ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ.

I had not quite decided what I wanted to do with my life after my retirement, so I worked as Managing Director for my family firm of journalism and software development; ๐’๐ž๐ง ๐“๐ข๐ฆ๐ž๐ฌ ๐†๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐๐ฏ๐ญ ๐‹๐ญ๐ and as Managing Editor of the companyโ€™s online newspaper – THE SEN TIMES.

I hope running this business will help me achieve a better work life- balance and create a legacy for my family. It marked the last job of my professional career.

I also decided to be a fulltime papa to my lovely children, Manish and Manisha. ๐Œ๐š๐ง๐ข๐ฌ๐ก ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐š ๐ฌ๐จ๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ฅ๐จ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Œ๐š๐ง๐ข๐ฌ๐ก๐š ๐ ๐จ๐ญ ๐ ๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฆ๐ž๐๐š๐ฅ ๐จ๐›๐ญ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ก๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐š๐ซ๐ค๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ง ๐Œ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Œ๐š๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐œ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐š๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ ๐ž๐ญ ๐๐ก๐ƒ ๐๐ž๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐ž๐š๐ซ.

To put my writing abilities into use, I became a permanent freelancer for various blogs and websites. I have always thought of writing autobiography and I believe this is the right time.
The children spend all the day at their activities of duty and studies, I have all the day by myself with my wife.

I have not decided which way to go with the autobiography, however Iโ€™m thinking in the lines of my fighting for the right of disabled persons and refugees, the challenges of honesty, openness, and truth in my career as well as my extrovert personality made me ideal for the girls in my youth life.

๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐’‡๐’–๐’๐’ ๐’‚๐’–๐’•๐’๐’ƒ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ๐’“๐’‚๐’‘๐’‰๐’š ๐’˜๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’ˆ๐’Š๐’—๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‚ ๐’˜๐’‰๐’๐’๐’† ๐’๐’†๐’˜ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’†๐’™๐’‘๐’‚๐’๐’”๐’Š๐’—๐’† ๐’๐’๐’๐’Œ ๐’‚๐’• ๐’Ž๐’š ๐’๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’‡๐’‚๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’Š๐’ ๐’‚ ๐’‘๐’“๐’๐’‡๐’๐’–๐’๐’…๐’๐’š, ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’‚๐’–๐’•๐’Š๐’‡๐’–๐’ ๐’˜๐’‚๐’š.

๐‘ด๐’š ๐‘บ๐’‰๐’๐’“๐’• ๐‘จ๐’–๐’•๐’๐’ƒ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ๐’“๐’‚๐’‘๐’‰๐’š ๐’Š๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’Ž๐’๐’“๐’‚๐’ ๐’๐’‡ ๐’Ž๐’š ๐‘จ๐’–๐’•๐’๐’ƒ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ๐’“๐’‚๐’‘๐’‰๐’š.

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